May 25, 2014

What a Week!

Well if you follow me on Instagram then you already know that I did not run my marathon as planned. I was on the fence about running it and then as things unraveled I knew that all signs were pointing to me having to pull out. It was a tough decision but in the end I am glad that I made the decision not to run because my mind would not have been in the race. 

Roxy, my Pom with cancer, has not been doing well. Her appetite has been very poor and I really thought that I was going to have to put her down this week. My daughter refuses to let me put her down because she says that she is not ready. I agree with her but we also agreed that once she stops eating we would have give her the peace she deserves. Well, this morning Roxy starting eating again. She was back at the side of my bed at 5 am barking and asking to eat. I was more than happy to get up and feed her and now she seems to be back to normal. I guess she has her good days and bad days.

Then to top things off, my son was not feeling well and ended up throwing up last night. At that point, the race was off for sure since I am a mom before I am a runner. I did not sleep the whole night checking on my son, keeping an eye on Roxy and dwelling on the fact that I pulled out of my race. Social media can make it that much worse when you see everyone else out there racing. Don't get me wrong. I am very happy for everyone who raced this weekend but just wished that I could have been out there with them. I just kept telling myself that there will be many opportunities to run races but family (which includes my dogs) comes first. I am over it now but it was a tough day. 

Running has not been so fabulous either. I have so many things on my mind lately that sometimes I just don't have the motivation to run. I have been going on shorter runs and not really pushing myself and that is kind of unheard for me. I haven't been sleeping well either so my energy is lacking when I get home from work. It's kind of sad but I keep telling myself that I need to snap out of this and realize that life isn't always perfect. I just need to accept it and deal with it!

Sorry to sound so negative but I am just keeping it real and being honest. I am hoping for a better week which includes motivation to get back to training. I have a half marathon coming up in a month and I need to be ready for it. My friend who lost her husband is supposed to be running with me but she is still going through some tough times and might back out on me. I totally understand her and may have to rethink those plans as well. 

How do you bounce back when you are feeling unmotivated?

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  1. I'm sorry you didn't get to run it but glad you made the smart decision. You are setting yourself up to have a great full marathon in the fall. I hope your son feels better ASAP and Roxy has a good day.

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    1. Thank you Angela. Fall marathons are crazy in that we have to train through the summer heat. I am glad I made the decision to not go since family is much more important.

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  2. Social media makes us all feel like we don't make the cut sometimes. The bottom line is you have to do what you have to do. Things will turn around. They always do.

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    1. Thank You Jennifer. You are correct and I am trying to remain on the positive side of things.

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  3. I'm happy to hear she's back eating! I hope it continues. She's a fighter and has more time ahead of her!

    Sorry about your race. It sucks when things don't go as planned but in the grand scheme of things you will be happy looking back at your decision! And I agree that social media makes it harder. It has been my biggest downfall during pregnancy. I miss racing so much!!

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    1. I am over it now but it sucks that I spent all of that time training for nothing. I don't regret not going but it is just hard to sit out a race that you have been looking forward to. Thank you for always being concerned about Roxy. Hope you and the baby are doing well. You are going to come back even stronger after the baby. I am not sure why that happens but I see it all the time!

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  4. So sorry to hear about Roxy and with your son sick too, I'd have done the same thing. I know it's disappointing though. There'll be other races to rock. : ) Hang in there.

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  5. Thank You Marcia. It was a tough choice but it happens.I am looking forward to the races that I have on my schedule for the summer.

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